Identity Crisis

Identity Crisis

We live in a world gone mad. Somehow, all of a sudden, we can’t figure out the difference between a man and a woman. Today we can tell someone that we’re a black woman or an animal when neither are the case and can totally demand that we need to be treated...
Trite Christian Comfort

Trite Christian Comfort

I was once accused of victim blaming and being a lousy Christian before being blocked on Facebook. Now some of you who know me might be surprised (or not – don’t raise your hands!). I thought she knew me better too. My sin? Suggesting she showed some grace...
The Dichotomies of Life

The Dichotomies of Life

It was a number of years ago when I first heard that word and that phrase – “the dichotomies of life” used by Pastor T.D. Jakes. Not sure why, but that phrase stuck in my head. The older I got the more real that terminology became to me. Life is full...
Love: The Most Powerful Force in the Universe

Love: The Most Powerful Force in the Universe

If you’ve been a Christian long enough some Christian, pastor or leader will probably say this at least once during your walk – “Yes, God is love, but He’s also holy!” Like what does that even mean? This irks me a little. Not because I...